Every action, every word, every thought

Today’s email from Paul Lowe touched me once again very deeply. It rings so true for me.

We are all transmitting/radiating all the time – through our actions, words, and thoughts.

It is not easy to grasp is it – that all our thoughts are interconnected – throughout the universes. And not only in our personal lives, but collectively we are creating what we call reality – on every level. Once you fully connect with how much your every thought creates your reality, please believe me, you become very much more aware of your every thought. Every single one you can catch.

One of my favourite human inventions is Blue Tack – the plastic squashy mouldable substance that adheres to surfaces. You can mould it to any shape and it stays that way until you decide to change it. We don’t see it that way – and that is the way we formulate our life and its circumstances. We are moulding our lives with every action, word, thought. Oh if you could only really see what a contracted ‘no’ brings into your life! And what delight expanded yes blesses you with.

Be slower, more sensitive, and sweeter and it becomes very clear to you where ‘life’ is gently inviting you. Stay in that flow and you will experience the blessings that surround you/are you. You may not realise it at the time. It may look like a tragedy, yet every, every single event is for you – an opportunity – helping you to see where you are not yet clear.

At one and the same time, marriage and relationships are one of the most destructive events on the planet, and one of the most helpful. (We may have the obvious wars here and there, involving a few thousand people, but most relationships are war – a lot of the time. A lot.)

Without realising the full extent of it, we are not happy with ourselves and even more unhappy when we do not have someone to blame it on. So we look for someone to fill the gap in ourselves. And the other person is looking to do the same. So both are looking for someone to fill their gap.

Look at it this way. When we are blind to one of our stuck places – places we are not seeing clearly, and thus not accepting in ourselves, we need an outside mirror. Relationships are perfect for that.

Without realising it we choose someone who will bring that part of us into focus. Every time we get upset and judgemental about someone and their behaviour, it is that part in them that triggers that part in us. A gift! Of course we don’t see it that way – we want to change them – so we can be more comfortable with that part of ourselves we are not wanting to see. And they are trying to change us.

And check it out – if you don’t get it with one partner, the next one will be an even better ‘support!’

Slow down, more gentle and sensitive – and sweet…

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